Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, May 14, 2012

It's Easy to be Happy....



I recently read an article about “15 Ways to be Happy”, found it practical and worth sharing, so here are a few key take away points.
-          Strengthen your relationship with your loved ones: It is all about recognizing your own strengths and weaknesses. Overcoming such things which might be hindering success in any relationship with the most beloved person, like an uncontrolled anger or non-thoughtfully said words.


-          Be clear in your communication: A conflicting message can create havocs at times and might result into a ruined relationship also. So it is very essential to be clear and precise in what message, intentions or expectations you wish to convey.
-          React positively to negative emotions: Being open to criticism and an attitude of accepting errors leads to improvement in personality along with great career growth.

-          Make a plan of action for next span of time: The more detailed the plan is the more likely you are to succeed. But plan to do only 6 things every day towards your goals will keep you stress free and with the constant momentum going.
-          Plan your meals before they happen: Maintaining a proper balanced diet is the toughest task in today’s hectic schedules, which is although the most essential part of routine life. So take a little time to plan the meal and avoid grabbing on junks. Don’t skip meals and eat on time.
-          Be active: Avoid sitting in front of TV for extended periods of time as you’re more likely to reach for unhealthy snacks. Use your spare time to exercise or engage in household activities.

-          Sleep well and just enough so you wake up energized and refreshed: It is important to know how much sleep is enough? If you feel tired when you wake up in the morning after more than 8 hours of sleep, you need to reduce the duration, as too much is as tiring as too little. Just the right amount makes you spring out of bed.


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          Pamper yourself and love yourself: Go for spa treatment or leisure walk, which will raise your spirits and revitalize both body and mind.
   
-          Try not to take life too seriously and look at the positive side of life. It helps to share your issues with people who listen to you.

-          Risk analysis: It is important to know the risks of the lifestyle which can affect your health. This can go a long way to help you make the right changes to your lifestyle.

The above mentioned points are no rocket science and just the general facts which we all are aware of, yet many of them go unnoticed and without taken care of.
Carelessness towards these things results in serious situations at times, so “a stitch in time saves nine” is always better to follow.
Starting with food and exercise seems easiest, at least to me.
 
So I am on my way of changing my lifestyle for the better one, are you??

Friday, August 20, 2010

BE YOUR SELF..!!

I saw a movie today, which cannot be said to be too inspiring, but i still liked one of the most appropriate lines said in it.
Here it is....

"Why should I try to please others, why should I do things which I don't which to do or don't want to do just to make others happy?

Why should you try to meet others idea of PERFECT... when I have one of my own..?"

Isn't it so true? Every time in our life, we either try to please our parents, do things to make new friends, then satisfy your life partner by doing things we just don't wish to do.... why so?

Why can't one accept me as me.. rather than changing myself into one which I am not..?
won't this be unfair with me and others too if they transform me and then adopt... when it is not real me..?

there is one more line from a hindi movie....
"koi pyaar kare to tumse kare..... jo tumhe badal kar pyaar kare...
sahiban wo pyaar nahi sauda kare...."

just so true.....!!